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1 month, 1 week and 1 day to my big day yo! :)

a lot have happened actually.. ive grown thinner thats for sure...part of it was because of the slimming regime ive religiously obeyed to and part of it was because of the wedding stress..ive also just came back from jakarta..went there to buy wedding stuff...the kain there, omg so heavenly but the doorgift..hmm..think baik beli kat malaysia as there were really not a lot to choose from..

anywayyss,

seriously...the stress is killing me..what with my mounting workloads and my ever pening wedding budget..ive to constantly worry about our financial stability, our to-do-list and what not...

so far my wedding preps are doing quite well..another month and a week to go mann...seriously rasa mcm lambatnyaaaaa masa berjalan...i was contempating to take a month off..huhu..but that, of course, is only a wish which would not come trueee..sobss

just a recap on my tunang photos..sigh...i have accepted the fact that i will never get my engagement photos  physically eventho the Vendor has given me the soft copies of all the pics..but it will not be the same kan coz its all in the pc..everytime i wana take a look of those pics, i need to open my lappie and have a lookie..thats sooo frustrating! we have texted and emailed and even sent msg over their FB, but our attempts to get our tunang photos were to no avail..semua tak di layan...soooo unprofessional! so at last, my tunang just texted him (the owner) and informed the vendor that we dont want the vid n photos..he can go and kepam the pics for all i care...tskkkkkkk :(

anywayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyss, coming back to my wedding preps. so far, semua dah settle cuma tinggal payment saje..the vendors to my wedding are as follows :

Nikah

a) make up - El Faizin (hopefully she will make me look sweet and berseri-seri on my nikah day..aminnn :) 

b) catering - CT Catering again. this time we have chosen lauk pauk kampung instead of nasi briyani or nasi minyak. reason being is coz the next day (reception), the respective caterer will serve nasi arab. so for nikah i wanted our guests to eat nasi lauk pauk kampung such as daging salai masak belimbing, sambal udang, ayam goreng perap daun kari, ulam betik dan mangga, teh tarik, kuih muih...omg yumss..tiba2 terliur while typing this..ngeeeee :) ohh, plan asal is to pakai the transparent tent but lately ni we have updated our budget and it seems like out budget dah burst BIG TIME..ninonino..time to panggil ambulans..

so in the end, after much consideration, sadly ive to cancel my dream transparent tent..soooo saddaa :(

c) photographer - Ministry of Moment...We've paid full for nikah and sanding so we are entitled to get two big albums of both events..yippiiiee :) hopefully we would not encounter the same problem we had with the vendor for tunang dulu...herghhh stresss!

d) videographer - DMZ Design. Hopefully they can deliver as good as they claim to be. Insya Allah

e) Pelamin - Shayana Creation. The same vendor we had for tunang's pelamin. there's a reason why we repeated their service right? :) really satisfied with their service during our tunang and hopefully they will deliver the same service and hasil kerja for nikah, aminn :) The theme i have opted for is morroccan :))

f) Baju nikah - ooohh..im sooo excited abaout this..ive actually went to 3 different vendors before i finally chose najib :) first was abg faizul..feel bad for not continuing with him sebab dah discuss harga, design apa semua but after i was coaxed and persuaded by my eldest sister who said that i should splurge on my nikah baju coz of the sentimental value, ive cancelled with abg faizul (well, cancel dlm hati sebab tak pergi jumpa dia pun. me so bad. feel bad :/ )..i went to nurita harith. oh man..drama there..ive actually paid the deposit but after she did sth on her own promise, ive no confidence with her and cancelled. got my refund back and went to see najib sa.lman..he was super nice and creative. came out with 3 designs for me to choose. he actually took into account my body type and skin color before giving me the 3 sketches. how cool is that..just hope that my nikah dress, which is not the ordinary nikah design yg simple2 tu, will turn out fine..cant waittt :))

ooh, and yes. i will be wearing hijab. but not the usual type...hihi..seriously cant wait :)

g) goodies - im confused and still contemplating. nak bagi food ke nak bagi benda? hmm

for family, ive bought kain color turqoise. actually, my initial plan was that i want my fam to wear mint green..the soft type punya green which will look good with soft pink. but in jakarta, there wasnt many to choose. so i had to opt for the color "torca" as what they defined there for the color turqoise.

SANDING

a) dress - ive two dresses for receptions..one is white gown sponsored by my colleague and the other is my own. it will be designed by naz.reen idris..the color is dusty pink..the design is a bit like lin.da ra.him's but slightly different..hopefully my dress will turn out gorgeous, aminn :)

b) caterer - nurul izzah catering. i find it a bit difficult to discuss with them, esp with what we want but i think it takes time to really go and see them and discuss. so if ever u wanna change or amend your invoice, i'd suggest u go to shah alam, to their office and see them face to face. so far, from the food testing i went to, the food was superb esp the nasi arab..so, ok kot?

c) make up - sue.cantik..ive booked sue thru his PA, abg wan like a year ago..initially i wanted to use kak saidatulnisa coz my eldest sister dulu hired her service for nikah and sanding. howeverrrrrrr, when my sis called her, she said she is booked on my sanding day..buggerr! so the second best and affordable for me is sue.cantik..so, called and paid depo and i will be seeing sue on the 11th in Peninsular Hotel..weee :)

d) pelamin - party pop.pers..the owner, sharifah is really friendly and creative..we have met her twice and we were giddy with happiness everytime!...i cant wait to see the dewan changed according to her creative ideas..it will not be the usual pelamin, thats for sure..hehe...really x 1000000 exciteddd! :)

e) band - the buskers. fully sponsored by my sisters...mwahhss :)

my family will be wearing purplish pink..hope it will compliment my dress :)

ape lagi eh? mcm penat nak sambung..huhu..so oklah, till i meet u again my blog (tah bile la kan..bz gile)..

toodlelooo :))

Review on Everything

Salam..

Been a while since i last blogged..I've been juggling between works and personal matters these past few days that i have lost track of time....but i have, at most times, concentrated on my personal matters that i have began losing focus on my works and it has now affected my career..wish i could have a wedding planner..that would certainly ease my burden..

sigh..just a wishful thinking


anyways, i am on mc today. having a runny nose and a bad cough while working is certainly not my forte as i could easily be irritated at almost EVERYTHING. so, rather than losing my energy at scolding ppl/clients unnecessarily, i chose to be resting at home..my home sweet home..


so by staying at home and having a me time definitely gave me the advantage of doing more research on my wedding..and that was when i realized that i have been neglecting my blog quite shamefully..it is supposed to be my journey to become one with him, but it was not reflected that way...so caught up with works and endless researches made me neglect my own wedding blog...oh well, i will just make do with the time that i have..last time i checked, 6 months to our nikah day..today, i have checked..and it shows approx 4MONTHS..yikes..excited and scared, that is how i am feeling now :)

anyways,

cant wait to start my life with him in our new house..oh alhamdulillah we have managed to get a house, a brand new house..it will be completed insya Allah December 2012 and we can move in 2-3months after that upon getting the CF..syukur alhamdulillah our housing loan was approved and everything is now settled, alhamdullilah..it is called Paragon 93 and i am so happy and thankful for this rezeki Ya Allah.. :)

 this is the common toilet for bilik bawah.. :)

 view of the living room taken from the kitchen :) i loveee whitee

 dining area...

 

  this is the sole reason why we (or should i say, "I"..hehe) bought this house..our very own courtyard IN the house..cant wait to see when it rains.. :)

  

the tingkat in bilik bawah which you can open and see who is actually is the living room..it opens up to the courtyard

  

 this is what you see when you open the window :)

 living room

sky bath in the master bedroom...mandi sambil tgk langit..scary or cool?hehe

master bathroom

 master bedroom

the courtyard taken from the upper floor view...that tingkap belongs  to the bilik bawah

syukur alhamdulillah...it costs us rm500++k and it is an intermediate unit..i have personally chose unit/parcel no 10 to coincide our nikah date, 10th of nov :)

anyways, enuff yapping about our dream house. lets move on to what i have intended to write about...my HONEST review on my engagement vendors :)

here goes :-

a) food (C.T Catering)

i personally like their professionalism....i would really recommend them to you guys who are still finding for catering services..eventho they came a tad bit late on my E-Day, but they get on doing their work fast. and very efficient..food wise, heard lotsa reviews from guests..but mostly good ones..their waiters are quick and well-mannered..i didnt hear any bad reviews about their waiters..their ayam masak merah is nice but maybe coz it was cut into tiny pieces, so it became hancur sikit..and ayam dendeng not really their forte..nasi was sedap and everythg else was superb..especially their teh tarik..they didnt use serbuk okk, they used real susu f&n for their teh tarik..i have asked for them to cater teh tarik again for my nikah, special request from my mum..huhu :)

price range is quite affordable, and service is ok, up to their standard. CT Catering has been long established and thats why i think they really control their professionalism and service..

my review : 4/5

b)  dress (sheila mo.hamad)

ok.i have been dreading to do a review on this.my personal thought of her is that mayyyyybeee she has loadsa clients when i approached her and just mayyyyyybe she has forgotten to do the things that i have specifically requested her to do on my dress. no doubt it looks simple and nice and quite appropriate for an engagement event. but i had specifically asked her to do certain detailings on the dress itself, namely :-

a) to add on the button bulat2 at the back (she calles it "butang cik abang tolong") instead of making just a mere zip..but she didn't do that..she did a zip :(

b) i didnt ask for a trail..but she gave me one..awkward for me who wants a simple dress as my event was done at home, not at any dewan..i dont need that trail..her reason : my tailor saje buat..terlupa la tu nak potong *wth???*

c) we have specifically asked her to terbalikkan the satin for my tunang's baju melayu as he didnt want the kilat part to be shown outside.he wanted the kilat part to be on the inside and the not so kilat part to be on the outside...

but what did he get?n what was the reason? same as (b) :(

further, my tunang has asked for pockets dekat seluar. the first time fitting she didnt do it. after my tunang has pointed it out, she said she will do it and return the baju melayu to us duly rectified. but did she do it? what do u think? sobs. my tunang was soooo marah that he sorta lashed it out on me coz i was the one who proposed to use sheila's service at the first place..huhu 

takpelahh...i am a pretty sabar person. but my fiance?huhu..just to inform we only paid 3/4 of the initialed payment after my fiance called her and complained.she has noted and agreed on the things not done and hence, she has agreed on the deduction payment by saying "tak paa..berapa2 pun boleh bayar"..

d) i think the detailing was maybe, a tad TOO simple for what we have agreed and paid for...but whatevs la..nasi sudah menjadi bubur

she is actually a pretty decent and nice fella. her house boutique is in Puchong 2, which is wayyy wayyy to far from my house. but disebabkan teruja dengan hasil kerja dia di magazine, i didnt care about all that..sanggup tu travel as far as puchong 2 semata2 to have a discussion with her

but tu lah..maybe not my luck..maybe yours will not be as mine..maybe i have opted for her service on a wrong timing. sigh

nevertheless, my dress looks...em, NICE..it's just my personal feeling that it should be BETTER based on the above

 my review : 3/5


c) MUA-Laila Rohani

i thought she looked tough. and she is..hehe..she is that sort of a person who does not care what people think about her as long as she has her way and do her work the best that she can be..which is good for me but maybeee not good to some of my siblings..hehe..they thought that she is a snob.. :)

anyway, she was punctual..came around 6pm, started doing her work at 6.30pm and finished by 8+. as the rombongan came around 9+, she stayed with me and re-touched the lippie, the blusher and what not just before i was called to go "menghadap"..hehe..she is real nice and like a big sista...i feel like if she is my sister, she will go belasah whoever bullying me..huhu

anyways, my personal view bout my makeup..at first i thought it was sooooooooooo tebal as i could not recognize my own face..i have specifically informed her to go gentle on the makeup as my fiance is not one who likes his girl to be soo "contengs" by makeup..huhu...i thought i looked like cleopatra, what with the straight cut bangs, deep eyeshadow, heavy colored bronzer and foundation...most of her makeup thingy is by MAC, by the way

however, when i look at pictures (with the right lighting or whatever u call it), i see how it actually blends somehow. the eyeshadow, the nude lippie, the blusher...it looks natural...for night make up, it looks effortlessly made up :)

 after make up..kak lai.la rohani TV3 :)

my review : 3.5/5


d) OP and OV - La Television and Photofreak

hmmm, what can i say..disebabkan nila setitik, rosak susu sebelanga

we were engaged on 12th may..

and its July alreadyyyy...

and we still did not get our album and our video YET despite countless numbers of follow ups

the owner, Azli was nice the first time we met him..

i still believe that he is one nice, decent and hardworking dude..proud to have a working malay dude like him

but what makes us really turned off is his admin/PA/bini or whatever you call it...no PR..no sense of professionalisme..

u have got to master your EQ when dealing with ur clients ok..

when asked when can we get our album/photo, the reply that we got from his lady PA was :

"awak nak tau ke turn awak?takut awak terkejut je nanti"...

or something like that

seriously dude.. tskk

last we checked, azli said he will post our vid next week..

our album? he said its on the way..wallahualam

hope for the best je la

my review :2/5 (2 is for the extra effort yg azli tunjukkan masa event tu sampai terpecah prop pelamin)

to be continueddddd.....

Re-cap

I am engagedddd :))

Alhamdulillah..12thMay2012 marks an eventful day for me, it was not just a day where i got really nervous and excited hence could not even smile properly..It was THE day where i have gotten engaged with him..Hehe

If i could rewind and turn back time, maybe i will erase few things that happened on the day itself but come to think of it..Nahh, i will just let it pass :) I was happy and still am relieving from the happiness since that day :)

I was dolled up till i could not even recognize my own face and the dress that i was wearing was a simple design with a few beadings and detailings..

I will make a post on a review of all things on that special day but ive to rush today to find my fiance's (haha..kelakar la to address him as my fiance..still need to get used to) hall..Suddenly, my fiance's fam have decided to have a separate reception and we've to find one this year jugak. Most of the halls ive been told have been fully booked till next year..Thank god ive booked my hall, Community Hall Bukit Damansara one year before my big day..But kesian my fiance, need to help him to find one..Ok that i will story later yah :)

On  to the most important thing, which is...

I have decided to rent/sell out my engagement's dress specially designed and custom-made for me by the designer Sheila.Mohamad..The cutting is divine, the color is soft and romantic (champagne) and the design is simple for engagement but stunning and romantic with the soft furl and beadings..It comes with a trail (not really long though) and simple shawl (with few batu-batu beads spread over it)..No doubt i feel like a princess on that day, with one of my cute dayang holding on to my trail when i sashayed to the mini pelamin..LOL.. :)

Ok, as they say, only pictures would do you justice..So here we go...

So the details of renting/selling are as folows :-

RENTING :-
-RM200 (includes dress & trail, and shawl)

BUYING :-
-RM400
-This dress will be delivered to you fully ironed (and wangi of course..huhu) and with Sheila.Mohamad big cover bag :)

MATERIAL :-
-Soft chiffon..Very lembut and the fact that the dress cuts into two (refer picture) to cover/camouflage your "cute" tummy (i was told by kak sheila..)..So that when u duduk at the pelamin, tak nampakla your over-bulging tummy mcm my tummy tu,,hehe..Perfecto tu cover perut muncitt :)
NEVER BEEN WORN SINCE MY ENGAGEMENT DAY :)

TERMS :-
-You can have the dress 2 days prior to your event whether you want to rent or buying it
-Advanced Deposit of RM200 plus Security Deposit of RM200 (Total : RM400) are to be paid upon pick up (for renting).
-Upon delivery of the dress (subject to the dress to be in a good condition), your Security Deposit of RM200 will be refunded back to you.
-As is where is basis (Meaning how u see is how u should return back in the original condition)-applies for renting and buying
-No need to cuci the dress after using..I will do the same for ya :) (for renting)
-Available for those Semi-petite girl and those M-size girls
-Can try out first then only decide you want to proceed or not ya. I am flexible on this :)
-Self pick-up

If you want to discuss further, feel free to call 017-3729575 (my fiance) or email us at mka_86@yahoo.com / zemn_83@yahoo.com...But if he'snot able to pick up your calls, pls text him ya coz if he didnt pick up, its either means he's in a meeting, or in the toilet..huhu...

okies, catch up with ya later :)

Updates

It has been been a whirlwind over these past couple of months, weeks, days..leading up to our engagement and wedding..

more chaos, more fights, more disagreements, more tolerance, more perseverance...

but it has turned out good, alhamdulillah :)

whatever fate we had, its all good, alhamdulillah

it brought us closer, it makes us stronger, and we love each other deeper and deeper each days..alhamdulillah :)

anyways, enuff of sessi meluahkan perasaan..

more updates for tunang and nikah and recep..weeee :)

OUR ENGAGEMENT

Soo, after much contemplation, we've decided...

12.05.12 @night after Isyak' it is..

weehee.. :)

todate, we have sorta finalized everything..from attires to catering to mini pelamin to dayang2 to panglima2 to makeup..here's the update :-

catering : CT Catering..menu nasi briyani, ayam masak merah, dgg dendeng, teh tarik, air punch, 2 canopies for 150 pax

attires : kak sheila mohamad..fitting has yet to be confirmed

mua : kak laila rohani

dyg2 and panglima2 : kain given, up to them to accessorize :) cant waitt

hantaran : settled..

dulang : to be done by Tinaju Hantaran for my side and DIY for his side..noicee :)

ring : ooohhh, it will be a simple solitaire with diamond stud..comel..cant wait! :)

mini dais : shayana creation..good deal as it costs us rm350 only..we opted for modern design with loadsa mirrors :)

OP & OV : Azli from Photofreak and La Televisio

entertainment : pasang cd je nanti 

Goodies : still thinking of DIY-ing something :)

candy buffet : half sponsored 

dayang2:

1-erin

2-ana

3-adik

4-iza

5-aby

6-kwn erin

7-diana

theme : takde...hehe

so far, ive bought carpet for the living room,, what a realllyy good deal it was for a handmade Belgium carpet..hehe..alhamdulillah..cant wait to hamparkan the carpet and feelll the squish squaf of the bulu2..rasa nak golek2 kat situ juge :)

this month gonna buy aircond for the living room, the kain to put the hantarans, to cari cd kosong..

what else?

hmmm...need to think fast as i have approx 1 month before my E-day..

gosh even typing it feels a bit awkward..hehe :)

OUR NIKAH

the only thing pending is my baju nikah..

i need to think fast and decide on the style..and also the attire for the dayang2..

since i will be giving 9 dulang to him, so i need to find 9 dayangs

1-erin

2-ana

3-adik

4-iza

5-aby

6-dina

7-ixo

8-nadia

9-faten

ooh, i still need to find somebody to do the mini dais, finalised on the menu for the catering (gona use CT Catering once more), goodies (maybe we will only give the Yassin we bought previously

entertainment wise, was thinking of karaokeing.. :)

OP will be MOM (Ministry of Moment)

OV will be La Televisio

OUR RECEPTION

everything has turned out like what we have planned

just hope it will run smoothly :)

MISC

right now, we are praying and hoping that Paragon 93 will be our home and the loas approved..be it housing and personal...insya Allah

:)

SUE CANTIK & PHOTOFREAK & ARIFF THANI & IZ STUDIO

firstly, on my reception MUA

since kak sai and her asst kak liza will not be available on my reception day, so ive booked the second best---> SUE CANTIK :))

weeeee! excited and thankful and am alllll gladd :)

second, ive also booked photofr3ak...both for photo and video for my tunang, and also video for my nikah and sanding


as for the official photographer for my nikah and sanding, ill be using abg ariff thani who has taken wedding pics for nora danish, anne ngasri and etc...apparently, he is the ex-husband of my sister's friend..so dptla save my moolah skit :)


and for pelamin dewan, after much drama, we have booked iz studio..minta2 la ok :)


ok adioss

idea for pelamin (hall)

super superr gorgeous!

taken from this inspiration

 to this!